You
are walking down the sidewalk and a guy walks up to you on the
street and demands money. You are driving down the road and a
police officer pulls you over. The leader of your group asks you to
speak to the entire group.
Your boss or a colleague is so
mad at you he or she starts to scream. Your main investment
suddenly crashes. The neighborhood bully wants to talk to you.
As
someone who wants to succeed, you need courage to deal with
anything that scares you. You must face your fears head on. You
need several types of courage.
The courage to discuss touchy issues.
The courage to be criticized.
The courage to say "no."
The courage to make decisions.
The courage to tell the truth.
The courage to face the facts.
The courage to be in the minority.
The courage to hold a position.
The courage to admit you are wrong.
The courage to trust others.
The courage to accept responsibility.
The courage to disagree.
The courage to change.
Without courage, your success is unlikely.
"A
person of high courage is a valuable associate and group member,
but a coward is a dangerous liability as a friend." From Science of Survival by L. Ron Hubbard
Each time you use more courage, you enjoy new benefits.
You
feel calm and peaceful. Problems that were persisting now tend
to disappear. Your confidence soars to new heights.
Managing your business, job or career becomes easier. You feel more energy. You sleep better.
People
around you follow your example. You inspire everyone to be more
courageous. Your family and groups become stronger.
Eight Articles to Help You Increase Your Courage
1.
You have more courage if you are passionate. Fire up your
purpose. Arouse your intensity. See "The Power of Passion."
2. Make steady, orderly progress. See "Orderly Progress = Power."
3.
Communicate, communicate, communicate. You will often find the
courage to communicate is all you need to resolve difficult
situations. See "When in Doubt, Communicate."
4. Prepare
for a confrontation. Write down your plan of action, list all
contingencies and set the stage. See "How to Handle Difficult
People."
5. Lighten up. Your odds of success are much
greater if you are less serious about everything. See "Being Too Serious
Can Drive You Crazy."
6. Look at the challenge as an
opportunity. Much of what you have accomplished has taken
courage. Every time you go through a difficulty, you come out
stronger. See "Fishing Story: The Benefits of a Challenge."
7.
Do not assume anything. Do not listen to others. Look for
yourself. Horses are often terrified of shallow streams until
they step in and feel the water is only an inch deep. Once you
actually talk to a bully, you find it's not such a big deal. See
"Operating with the Truth."
8. Be more of a professional. Assuming a professional attitude includes new courage.
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