There are reasons why God allows some things to happen in our lives, even those that seemed like very dark times for us.
For example, one reason why we find it so hard to forget a previous relationship is that we can’t accept the fact that it could all just end that way and all our efforts, all our time, all our tears and suffering had just gone to waste.
God wastes nothing however, especially our tears. We don’t know the end yet, especially within the broad perspective of eternity.
The other person may not appreciate everything you have done for him/her now, but it is certain that you have made an impact in his/her life. That impact will play a part in the grander scheme of things.
You’ll never know how he/she shall one day remember everything that has been done for him/her, how he/she was loved. At present, he/she may really feel such a deep craving to be loved but fears so much to be abandoned such that he/she consequently pushes away those who desire to love him/her.
But if you were able to show that person that you have been there for him/her at one point in his/her life, one day, God may let him/her see all the blessings sent his/her way, including the people who loved him/her even though his/her heart was still closed and unable to receive the love being offered him/her.
It’s never a waste to love.
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